discussion regarding whether women actually ever wanted sex for its own sake, or just went along with it in order to gain things that they valued more
Embrace the power of 'and' Brian. I often "go along with it" (though for us, it's more of a conscious choice and gift--speaking Akien's love language, which is touch). But there ARE times when I just want sex for sex (though Akien undoubtedly feels that's not often enough!).
Sorry to hear about the research politics. :^P
And it also sounds like it's a good thing we skipped lunch, if you came down with anything that might be "proto-strep." Well, here's best wishes for a speedy "recovery" (or near-miss--whichever!).
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Date: 2003-06-11 09:09 am (UTC)Embrace the power of 'and' Brian. I often "go along with it" (though for us, it's more of a conscious choice and gift--speaking Akien's love language, which is touch). But there ARE times when I just want sex for sex (though Akien undoubtedly feels that's not often enough!).
Sorry to hear about the research politics. :^P
And it also sounds like it's a good thing we skipped lunch, if you came down with anything that might be "proto-strep." Well, here's best wishes for a speedy "recovery" (or near-miss--whichever!).