How did you learn it? It isn't as though there are guides or lessons... sigh.
It's not really the sort of learning that one needs a lesson for, I think; for me, it's just a matter of consciously reminding myself not to be uncomfortable (and reminding myself that the people involved aren't expecting privacy) when I'm someplace where people are being demonstrative that way. After many repetitions, it becomes more internalized.
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Date: 2003-06-28 05:53 pm (UTC)It's not really the sort of learning that one needs a lesson for, I think; for me, it's just a matter of consciously reminding myself not to be uncomfortable (and reminding myself that the people involved aren't expecting privacy) when I'm someplace where people are being demonstrative that way. After many repetitions, it becomes more internalized.
In other words: practice, practice, practice.