I don't make/retain friendships easily with people who I feel I need to constantly be on alert around. If I can't be comfortable with somebody, then I usually don't want them around me that much. At least, in order to maintain a friendship, I need to find some level of equilibrium. But That's Just Me.
Do you often feel that you need to be on eggshells with your other friends of similar closeness? Or does K seem to be more explodey than other people? I strongly suspect, as has been mentioned, that calibrating your emotional/interpersonal settings by a person who is touchier than most is not the best idea.
Uh... have to go; violetvixen is being eaten by a dress pattern. :P
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Date: 2002-02-22 08:16 pm (UTC)Do you often feel that you need to be on eggshells with your other friends of similar closeness? Or does K seem to be more explodey than other people? I strongly suspect, as has been mentioned, that calibrating your emotional/interpersonal settings by a person who is touchier than most is not the best idea.
Uh... have to go;