Thanks for the neural net analogy - that's quite a good model for understanding a few things about how relationships work for me (both why I find it difficult to really "get" the thought process people are going through when they say things like "We like to keep each of our relationships separate", and why I feel that certain of my partners change me enough that I want to mark it with a change of name).
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Date: 2002-03-05 03:33 am (UTC)