And remind myself to let go of the need to be right, even right about my self-views
Oy. *seeble* This one is extremely difficult for some of us. :^/ I'm glad it's working for you. Keep at it!
And thanks for the apology. I certainly shot myself in the foot enough in that whole process, but I'll agree that my initial involvement could probably be labeled "collateral damage." Although I still think it was in extremely bad taste (at the very least) to essentially attack you in your own journal, it seems that the original inflammatory comment to which I responded wasn't so far off the mark after all. :^/ I think I learned a thing or two out of that whole debacle, and it looks like you have too. Hopefully, this is true for all of the involved parties, as I'd hate to think that that much pain and anger was all for naught.
good insights
Oy. *seeble* This one is extremely difficult for some of us. :^/ I'm glad it's working for you. Keep at it!
And thanks for the apology. I certainly shot myself in the foot enough in that whole process, but I'll agree that my initial involvement could probably be labeled "collateral damage." Although I still think it was in extremely bad taste (at the very least) to essentially attack you in your own journal, it seems that the original inflammatory comment to which I responded wasn't so far off the mark after all. :^/ I think I learned a thing or two out of that whole debacle, and it looks like you have too. Hopefully, this is true for all of the involved parties, as I'd hate to think that that much pain and anger was all for naught.