Hmm.. well, a given tool can be used in lots of different ways by different users. But in the original spirit, the livejournal "friends" list might have been better called a "participant's list" or "reader's list" since it really describes a quality other than the emotional ties to others online. Access-pressure has never been an issue for me, per se (grin), but I can see that in your position(s) straddling several online communities, it could be quite awkward at times.
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Date: 2002-03-10 11:46 am (UTC)By the way, do you have a title yet?