How often to call? How much time to try to spend? It varies by relationship, of course, but also having her be nearby is different. With seemingly more access, I have to resist the urge to drive down to San Jose daily... or call four times a day, now that we're in the same time zone.
Much of that is entirely limited by the fact that I am working 12 hours a day at a minimum, every day. Dropping by the hotel unannounced is unlikely to be a good plan, because odds are I'd just have time to wave to you as I ran past to another meeting or to take care of something for someone else. And calling four times a day, no matter what time zone, is not high up on my list of things to do. =) (That has absolutely nothing to do with you, as I suspect you know, and has everything to do with the fact that I hate the phone and avoid it if at all possible.)
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Much of that is entirely limited by the fact that I am working 12 hours a day at a minimum, every day. Dropping by the hotel unannounced is unlikely to be a good plan, because odds are I'd just have time to wave to you as I ran past to another meeting or to take care of something for someone else. And calling four times a day, no matter what time zone, is not high up on my list of things to do. =) (That has absolutely nothing to do with you, as I suspect you know, and has everything to do with the fact that I hate the phone and avoid it if at all possible.)