(I didn't see this post, earlier, so I'm coming to it now.)

"Attractive women" are in the eye of the beholder, and "attractive men", likewise. Meanwhile, what I find attractive is self-confidence and competence, and kindness. Weight and muscle tone may help contribute to eyecandy, but I've turned down many offers from eyecandy because they were unkind, or thoughtless, or unclueful, or arrogant, or obnoxious, or physically hamhanded.