I don't usually feel less visible as a parent, but definitely less free. I think my child-free friends simply have the expectation that I'm gonna work out childcare issues and show up if I want to be there. There isn't always the understanding of exactly how logistically difficult it is. Please correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't one of your boys sortof high needs? That would make it a lot harder, I think.
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Date: 2004-09-08 03:53 pm (UTC)