Jealousy isn't automatically rational or irrational. Loss isn't inevitable in a poly situation, and neither for that matter is gain. I appreciate your logic, but there's more to it than that that's always situation-dependent.

Please think about this before you immediately respond with an argument. If I'm going to get into this with you, I want to see some evidence that your statment of "I'm open to being convinced otherwise" is accurate.

-J