ext_3099 ([identity profile] griffen.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] jay 2004-10-18 04:57 pm (UTC)

What he said. If A chooses to view the situation as "I'm being stolen from," of course A isn't going to be happy. If A chooses to view the situation as "C is someone who makes B happy, and that makes ME happy," the jealousy factor is much reduced.

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