Brian, I may piss you off with this observation, but it's what I'm hearing though a lot of your comments, and most strongly here.
What I am hearing in what you're saying is that you want to be the only partner your others have. The jealousy issues you started this post with sound like a monogamous person who just discovered that their partner is attracted to someone else.
The comments about your connection being lesser because of a new connection they have, of withdrawing when they have a new OSO, of feeling the need to know details (or imgaining the worst when you don't) - It's almost like you're reacting to being cheated on.
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What I am hearing in what you're saying is that you want to be the only partner your others have. The jealousy issues you started this post with sound like a monogamous person who just discovered that their partner is attracted to someone else.
The comments about your connection being lesser because of a new connection they have, of withdrawing when they have a new OSO, of feeling the need to know details (or imgaining the worst when you don't) - It's almost like you're reacting to being cheated on.