To me - and this is just me and nobody else - it seems selfish to be unwilling to be happy for a partner when they've had a happy-making date. And it seems rather control-freakish to expect to know any specifics of what went on during that date, unless that's been specifically negotiated and agreed to, in advance, with both the SO and the SO's SO.
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Date: 2004-10-25 05:36 pm (UTC)