To me - and this is just me and nobody else - it seems selfish to be unwilling to be happy for a partner when they've had a happy-making date.
I know from personal experience that this is not usually the case with Brian. Yes, he has jealous patches, and he's working on them, but I have certainly seen him be happy when partners have had had good experiences with their OSOs. Whether he communicates that to his SOs is a different matter, and one which I am not privy to.
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Date: 2004-10-25 07:18 pm (UTC)I know from personal experience that this is not usually the case with Brian. Yes, he has jealous patches, and he's working on them, but I have certainly seen him be happy when partners have had had good experiences with their OSOs. Whether he communicates that to his SOs is a different matter, and one which I am not privy to.