IMO, to accept help is to be part of the community. To insist on doing everything oneself is stepping back from community, and not allowing others the pleasures of giving help to others. Alas, I'm still working on that one. This one really hits me where it hurts, because I love helping other people, and it's hard for me to ask for and accept help.
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Date: 2005-08-07 11:33 am (UTC)