no further contact with . . . any friends not approved by her?
That would make me nuts even in a monogamous relationship.
Did the counselor have anything to say about this?
I think lots of folks have experienced having to "not be poly" while their kids' custody was established, but I know for sure that lots of folks have had restrictions that the kids not move out of the state be part of custody arrangements.
If you decide to stay married, you've got a lot of taking care of yourself to do.
If you decide not to, it might be time to find a poly-friendly and poly-experienced lawyer. :/
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Date: 2001-10-27 06:03 pm (UTC)That would make me nuts even in a monogamous relationship.
Did the counselor have anything to say about this?
I think lots of folks have experienced having to "not be poly" while their kids' custody was established, but I know for sure that lots of folks have had restrictions that the kids not move out of the state be part of custody arrangements.
If you decide to stay married, you've got a lot of taking care of yourself to do.
If you decide not to, it might be time to find a poly-friendly and poly-experienced lawyer. :/