Brian, if by "around here in CA" you're talking about the hot tub crowd -- it seems to me that you've mentioned that you feel excluded in all sorts of ways there, but I also recall others form that group mentioning that it's a matter of your not feeling comfortable asserting yourself there, and it's very much a "must demonstrate consent and willingness by initiating action" environment. If you're using the metric "people in that community don't seek me out to interact with", you're measuring with a badly calibrated tool.
What is it that you imagine would make you an unpleasant client?
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Date: 2005-10-30 05:54 am (UTC)What is it that you imagine would make you an unpleasant client?