I think of "notch" as a derogatory term for one-time-only sex NOT motivated by desire or loneliness, but instead for the purposes of conquest and egoboost, motivated by the need for self-aggrandizement (in this case through sheer numbers). I was someone's notch once. Absolutely unmistakable, when it happens. I found it quite unpleasant.
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Date: 2002-08-26 03:30 pm (UTC)