LOL... why would I defriend you over *that*? You're respectful and constructive, even while asking that question.

Supportive? I feel like I am, and have been, at least in crises in the lives of several of the people commenting over there. Warm? Less so... probably cooler in my own LJ than when commenting in others' posts. Over here, I'm still half-defensive when I post anything personal, having been repeatedly burned in the past. But others' concerns are safer to write about.