It's a four-letter word only by virtue of having four letters. Trust me, if I'd wanted to be inflammatory, I could have hauled out a whole bunch of cusswords, none of which have four letters. I was simply saying what was on my mind: that I, and many others, have offered you help many times in the past and have had it rejected as if it was a substance that emits from the rear end, rather than help. And on the receiving end, it does feel exactly like you're throwing it back in my face. And because of that, I'm tired of trying, because it's a consistent reaction with you.

I find it interesting that once again, instead of listening to the message, you've chosen to nitpick the presentation. I was also trying to tell you that at this point, I can no longer afford to let myself care if my comments help you or not, because it's become quite obvious to me over the years that you refuse to accept any help offered, regardless of how it's offered, if it requires even the slightest bit of change from you.

My comment was not intended as an attack; you simply chose to take it as one.