Maybe you need to filter. I think that there are several people who you have a history with that you tend to get defensive around -- rightly or wrongly -- which makes it difficult for you to listen to them even when they give you good advice. So maybe if you filtered it to people who are honest with you, but who you are not likely to immediately shut down around, you might be less uncomfortable posting about personal issues.
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Date: 2008-03-05 05:44 pm (UTC)