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I still get all frubbly and squeeful around her, which I think she doesn't mind too much. Pretty good for six years along in a long-dstance relationship. We've seen other relationships begin and end for each of us, dealt with angst and stress, gone through periods of distance... and then back closer. Ups and downs. And one of the most valuable things I've learned is letting a relationship be itself, and take its natural course, rather than pushing and pushing to make it fit some expectation. Thanks, love!

I still count down the days... even though visits have become fewer, the past couple of years, due to shifts in work trips. And she's still adorable to me, in her quiet, eclectic, playful ways. Happy anniversary! :)

Date: 2008-05-20 09:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cyan-blue.livejournal.com
Happy Anniversary, you two! :-)

Date: 2008-05-21 05:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anaisdjuna.livejournal.com

What a lovely post. I definitely will listen to this bit:

"is letting a relationship be itself, and take its natural course, rather than pushing and pushing to make it fit some expectation"

Date: 2008-05-21 08:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] haleth.livejournal.com
Happy anniversary!

Date: 2008-05-21 06:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] miss-spooky.livejournal.com
Happy Anniversary!!!

Date: 2008-05-26 02:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] brian1789.livejournal.com
It took me a couple of years to learn, in this relationship. I used to fret about What Does This Mean and push for more/different kinds of interactions. Rather than simply letting go and enjoying What Is, here.

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