Would it be visible if I were sitting across a table, chatting with that person? If it is hidden damage, I don't react to it.

What happens when you get into bed with someone who has, say, stretch marks that aren't visible when they're clothed? Is that a turn off? Or do you not care by that point?

Disablements haven't been an issue, per se, although I'm more likely to view that person initially as a potential friend-in-need rather than a possible playmate.

Does this also apply to visually obvious disabilities only (such as being in a wheelchair) or also to invisible disabilities (e.g., heart condition)?

I like tattoos, and I like the way piercings look, but I don't like playing with them.