What happens when you get into bed with someone who has, say, stretch marks that aren't visible when they're clothed? Is that a turn off? Or do you not care by that point?
The latter... by the time I'm getting into bed with someone, I know them, and are presumably attracted by their personal qualities... initial view-at-a-distance filters are secondary effects by then.
Besides, I've never been to bed with anyone that *didn't* have hidden stretch marks! I expect them... I have yet to date anyone smaller than a size 18... not because of a BBW preference, it has just happened that way.
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Date: 2002-10-10 01:45 am (UTC)The latter... by the time I'm getting into bed with someone, I know them, and are presumably attracted by their personal qualities... initial view-at-a-distance filters are secondary effects by then.
Besides, I've never been to bed with anyone that *didn't* have hidden stretch marks! I expect them... I have yet to date anyone smaller than a size 18... not because of a BBW preference, it has just happened that way.