Your "chosen family" category doesn't exist for me, I think... it is hard to see what they would gain from me, or me from them, from being loving-but-nonsexual, or at least loving-but-nonromantic. It is also hard to imagine opening up and *trusting* someone to be as close as family, if they were rejecting me to that extent meanwhile?
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Date: 2008-08-18 10:06 pm (UTC)