(hopes you won't peck at my eyes for this coinage...)
For #2, I use "meta-sweetie" if there's some affection or connection, or occasional N-somes, and OSO or "C's other partner(s)" if there isn't so much.
For #1, the alt.polyamory home page glossary link is http://www.polyamory.org/~joe/ . My own poly language was influenced strongly from lots of time spent on alt.poly around 1998-2003.
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For #2, I use "meta-sweetie" if there's some affection or connection, or occasional N-somes, and OSO or "C's other partner(s)" if there isn't so much.
For #1, the alt.polyamory home page glossary link is http://www.polyamory.org/~joe/ . My own poly language was influenced strongly from lots of time spent on alt.poly around 1998-2003.