Also... as regards "quantum relationship"... like tocotox, it describes a relationship which fits into different aspects of friend/lover/sweetie. But I see TOCOTOX as simultaneously those things, just across different areas or aspects. While a quantum-relationship is piecewise-different *over time*, in that two people may act as friends today, act googly-eyed and coupled over dinner next week, and then play passionately at next Saturday's party before being friendly and aw-shucks again two days later. Jumping between phase states, but landing more-or-less completely in them before jumping to the next state. Temporally piecewise-consistent, while a TOCOTOX is an ongoing mixed-bag?