Eh. I have some virtues and interesting aspects, and thanks for recognizing them. :) It isn't hard to imagine others valuing me at some level -- just that without a deeper emotional connection, it is harder to see why there would be any level of commitment or affection by the other person.

And this likely reflects my own priorities... regardless of how neat or interesting the other person may be, if there's no chance ever of a capital-R relationship then they immediately get moved to my back-burner?