Maybe exploring reciprocality... before an event, stating my expectations and needs, while other(s) do likewise. With the understanding that none of us are required to meet any of the others' needs, going in.
Yeah, I think that sort of thing might work really well for you. I'd love to hear about what happened if you tried it!
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Date: 2002-11-23 07:22 pm (UTC)Yeah, I think that sort of thing might work really well for you. I'd love to hear about what happened if you tried it!
-J