Today I took a deep breath, and decided to finally "out" myself poly-wise to a friend... a distant-but-special friend, someone that I once practically worshiped. My first love, 25 years ago, although we never did more back then than kiss and write daily letters. She's monogamous and has been married now for 20+ years, so I feared a strong negative reaction. With great trepidation, I wrote her an email over lunch, and sent it... and in her reply tonight, discovered that she'd been reading my LJ and had figured this out long ago. Eep.
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Date: 2003-09-16 11:42 pm (UTC)(grin) thanks! I have good friends. And that one is generally unafraid to speak her mind (or give me a figurative kick when she thinks it's appropriate), so I would have heard from her earlier if there was a problem. Whew.