The problem is that if you deny yourself the things you need, and you see it as a denial, then you really cannot help other from a position of strength. You will constantly be wearing yourself out, while not getting back what you need to get along, and it isn't a zero-sum game. You will crash-and-burn eventually.
There is a difference in setting priorities such that you take care of your needs, and help other in need, but don't place a high priority on wants or luxuries.
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Date: 2004-04-16 05:49 pm (UTC)There is a difference in setting priorities such that you take care of your needs, and help other in need, but don't place a high priority on wants or luxuries.
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Date: 2004-04-19 10:16 am (UTC)