For most people in them, I'm sure they're fine. But I'm not in the middle of any of them... and I'm tired of being peripheral and feeling left out, and at the same time don't see how I can change my relative position.
Lots of people came to my birthday party, for example, but won't make time for lunch with me -- outside the motivation of their *other* friends being present.
And we should definitely meet up again, hopefully before I go off to more field work in Spain next month...
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Date: 2004-08-10 05:20 pm (UTC)Lots of people came to my birthday party, for example, but won't make time for lunch with me -- outside the motivation of their *other* friends being present.
And we should definitely meet up again, hopefully before I go off to more field work in Spain next month...