What if they're gaining overall, but their specific link with yourself is losing?
Brian, do you think that love and caring is a zero sum game? That if I have 2 partners, and I gain another one, the first two automatically lose some of my love and caring?
Is that how you feel when you add relationships? Not when others do, but when you, yourself do? Does a new relationship lessen the others you have?
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Date: 2004-10-25 02:03 am (UTC)Brian, do you think that love and caring is a zero sum game? That if I have 2 partners, and I gain another one, the first two automatically lose some of my love and caring?
Is that how you feel when you add relationships? Not when others do, but when you, yourself do? Does a new relationship lessen the others you have?