HAI Level 1...

[jay]

This weekend, I had a moment to put aside years of childhood physical beatings and verbal and sexual abuse, and those feelings of worthlessness and shame and bad body image and self-hatred and being a burden to others... and feel loved and love myself, to be a gift to others, and functional and choosing to be in the moment and engaged. And I saw other people healed... two that were so stark that I'd consider them near miraculous, considering where those people were Friday night.

I wept a few times and nearly passed out once and was overall very happy at the end of the weekend. Internal scars were ripped open and walls shattered and somehow my seven-year-old self came back and integrated with my adult self and I was grinning hugely by Sunday evening, while still lucid and reaching out to others.

The pain and self-punishment were familiar, almost unconscious... but now I know what it feels like to let in acceptance and love and feel valued. I like that better. Now I have a contrast with the old neural pathways, and a set of goals. (grin)

Thanks to especially p3aches and to dawnd for suggesting this, patgreene for calming me Friday and making it possible by holding things down at home, and for tenacious_snail and J. for sharing it all with me and being my safety net.

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[brian1789.livejournal.com]

I'm not going to the next South Bay support group, because of schedule conflicts this weekend, but I probably will do so sometime... :)

[p3aches.livejournal.com]

There is a th mon mid penninsula support group I go to as well. The th mon support group is lead by one of the facilitators. Its held n menlo park nd starts at 730 and ends at 930. Hugs T