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A few notes... it seems to me that I often adjust my behaviors to match my surroundings... in the sense of acting more assertive around more-butch women, and more tentative and hesitant (bordering on sheepitude, sometimes) around more-femme women. Either one-on-one or in groups...

And I'm still surprised at how differently I feel and behave when I'm with different sweeties. Not that one set is better or worse... just different.

Finally... I'm in DC now, after two first-class upgrades and a nice long lunch with Nancy in Minneapolis. Tonight I hand-delivered my last V-Day batch of homemade truffles to [personal profile] geekchick, including the milk-chocolate-dipped variety that I designed specifically for her, this year. And she met me at the door wearing a long black velvet dress, something Coldwater Creek-like... mmm. (bounce) And let me pick and choose a CD playlist from her garden of treasures (her music collection is diverse, eclectic and huge).

Tomorrow... MEPAG and a SWIM air traffic meeting, both simultaneously in Arlington.

Date: 2005-02-17 03:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tenacious-snail.livejournal.com
I see holding doors as a polite thing to do, gender aside.

I really appreciate it when you ask me for what you want. And I won't hate you later, regardless.

N. and I have talked about how you can perceive us as more fragile, or more distraught than we actually are. (but I do understand why you'd wonder at a call from me at 4:30 EST/7:30 EST. Glad to have chatted :-) (bounce) )

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