Jay, it isn't about whether or not you are there when you say you will be, it is about whether or not you call.
Avoiding giving me ETAs is still going to feed my sense of fear and anxiety, because I don't know what to expect. I want to know what to expect, and to be told when it changes. The change is fine, it is the uncertainty that I have difficulty with. I may learn why, and I may change, but right now, this is how I am.
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Date: 2005-07-10 04:04 pm (UTC)Avoiding giving me ETAs is still going to feed my sense of fear and anxiety, because I don't know what to expect. I want to know what to expect, and to be told when it changes. The change is fine, it is the uncertainty that I have difficulty with. I may learn why, and I may change, but right now, this is how I am.