I'm referring them to Pat at this point, so I don't have to be involved in that loop. Figuring that if she hadn't trashed her knee, I wouldn't be in this position anyway...
*facepalm* I'm reasonably sure that Pat's unhappy enough about being in pain and incapacitated already, I'd guess that comments like this one that make it sound like you blame her for inconveniencing you are likely to help anything.
To survive, I have to be able to carry on without any love or support, because one never knows when those things will disappear.
If you actively work to push those things away though, you end up with a much better idea of when they'll disappear. From what I've seen, you've got a lot of generous and caring friends locally who would be happy to give you love and support if you'd just let them from time to time.
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Date: 2005-08-08 05:55 am (UTC)*facepalm* I'm reasonably sure that Pat's unhappy enough about being in pain and incapacitated already, I'd guess that comments like this one that make it sound like you blame her for inconveniencing you are likely to help anything.
To survive, I have to be able to carry on without any love or support, because one never knows when those things will disappear.
If you actively work to push those things away though, you end up with a much better idea of when they'll disappear. From what I've seen, you've got a lot of generous and caring friends locally who would be happy to give you love and support if you'd just let them from time to time.