From a motivational standpoint... what I meant by "notch" is much closer to your first example. I don't regard sex between persons in an ongoing friendship as a notch for either, even if it is a one-time occurrence. The notch concept is much more closely tied in my head with thoughts of "collect the matched set" or "scoring"...
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Re: Notches vs. Casual Sex
Date: 2002-08-31 12:15 pm (UTC)