Brian I recently learned a great accronym for fear
FEAR = False Evidense Appearing Real. You are a science guy so you look for evidence to support your theory, in this case there is none. So your mind creates what it thinks will happen based on pats family history, however there is not real evidence this will happen for pat at least at this moment. hang in there. If possible be in the present. And know you have folks around you to reach out to. Hugs and courage T
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Date: 2002-09-10 08:39 am (UTC)FEAR = False Evidense Appearing Real. You are a science guy so you look for evidence to support your theory, in this case there is none. So your mind creates what it thinks will happen based on pats family history, however there is not real evidence this will happen for pat at least at this moment. hang in there. If possible be in the present. And know you have folks around you to reach out to. Hugs and courage T