It's hard. I find it's like rolling a big rock uphill, it takes a huge energy investment to get that boulder up to the point at which I can push it down the other side, that I can ask.
And more often than not, because of that, if the answer isn't "Yes", I fall on my face and hurt something.
Which makes the next damn rock that much heavier . . . .
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Date: 2003-01-29 01:18 am (UTC)I don't know how to fix it either.
It's hard. I find it's like rolling a big rock uphill, it takes a huge energy investment to get that boulder up to the point at which I can push it down the other side, that I can ask.
And more often than not, because of that, if the answer isn't "Yes", I fall on my face and hurt something.
Which makes the next damn rock that much heavier . . . .
Meh!