I've kissed 21 people, lifetime, and half of those are blood-relatives. Including simple pecks. So kissing is proportionately a big deal for me... with significant emotional content.
Really? I'm a bit surprised, given some of your social participation and level of activity.
Well, there are a lot of people I'd be social with but would not voluntarily kiss. (I don't include "been kissed by" because involuntary stuff says nothing about my choices.)
My totals break down a little differently because my relatives don't kiss. Counting cheek-pecks, I have kissed only my mom and my sister.
Not something that I do lightly, in any case...
Same here. I mean heck, there are people I'd rather f*ck than kiss.
If I discount relatives (most of those kisses occurred when I was a small boy) and "been kissed by", I'd be down to 11 lifetime. OTOH, my sexual constraints are even more restrictive... I wouldn't f*ck anyone that I couldn't feel comfortable kissing, and my lifetime totals there can still be counted on one hand.
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Date: 2003-09-06 01:39 pm (UTC)Well, there are a lot of people I'd be social with but would not voluntarily kiss. (I don't include "been kissed by" because involuntary stuff says nothing about my choices.)
My totals break down a little differently because my relatives don't kiss. Counting cheek-pecks, I have kissed only my mom and my sister.
Not something that I do lightly, in any case...
Same here. I mean heck, there are people I'd rather f*ck than kiss.
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Date: 2003-09-06 03:15 pm (UTC)