puzzled...

[jay]

What's wrong with "self-denial while helping others-in-need" as an ethic? For me it feels like almost a matter of honor...

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[dangerpudding.livejournal.com]

As your friends, and thus as people who want you to be happy, I think that most of us would be unhappy to learn that you're hiding frustrations and unmet-needs rather then asking. To me, it seems dishonest. It adds to the fragility of the relationship. That's not happy..

It might be the immediatly easier answer, but..