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jay ([personal profile] jay) wrote2005-01-29 12:59 am
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whew...

That was another 2.5-hour couples counselling session, going from 9:30pm-midnight. Whew. I feel drained and exhausted and kind of numb... I worked hard to stay present and not caretake, and Pat worked hard to not retreat inside herself, rant and yell, or just agree to anything I wanted. The upshot... a lot of deeper discussion around core-level compromises, and a few boundary tweaks proposed with OSOs.
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[identity profile] cyan-blue.livejournal.com 2005-01-29 04:44 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds like you both did a lot of honest, deep work!

[identity profile] archway.livejournal.com 2005-01-29 10:53 am (UTC)(link)
...Wow. ~sends pampering thoughts for today...you guys EARNED it!~
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