A glutton for punishment...

[jay]

I probably shouldn't toss this out here on a day that has started as wonderfully well as this one, but WTH... here's my antonym (negative traits) Nohari here, if anyone cares to respond... (wry grin).

Comments

[brian1789.livejournal.com]

I find it interesting that most of the inputs are thus far... anonymous. Things that the individuals involved don't dare say to my face, per se...

[tshuma]

I am not at all surprised.

I answered it once, in someone else's window, and the whole time was spent saying "This sucks, there's no way to explain what the word means to me and how I apply it to their behavior." I'm flat-out not doing it again.

Oddly enough, it never occurred to me to leave one anonymously. I find I am equally resistant to that.

[brian1789.livejournal.com]

(nods) it could spiral down into a group beating, if not done carefully and with lots of contemplation.

I'm pretty sure that at least one of the anonymous comments (two, I think) are from partners of mine. That... speaks volumes, unfortunately.

[tshuma]

Well, the best way to handle such things is generally to ask, rather than assume you know what they meant.

The thing is, it doesn't need to be taken as a group beating. I'm aware that I don't have the strength of will to be able to take it all with a grain of salt, so I'm not soliciting answers to that one, myself.

[brian1789.livejournal.com]

It isn't a group beating IMO any more than the other was a group uplifting... neither can be taken completely to heart.

none from this partner

[geekchick]

I have not and will not do a nohari window for anyone, for similar reasons to tshuma's.

Re: none from this partner

[brian1789.livejournal.com]

(nods) I thought you were unlikely, there.

Re: none from this partner

[cyan-blue.livejournal.com]

Ditto - just too, too dangerous. People are getting hurt.

[datagoddess.livejournal.com]

Might be a good idea to ask before making any assumptions, thought.

[brian1789.livejournal.com]

In the end, it doesn't matter.