A glutton for punishment...

[jay]

I probably shouldn't toss this out here on a day that has started as wonderfully well as this one, but WTH... here's my antonym (negative traits) Nohari here, if anyone cares to respond... (wry grin).

Comments

[p3aches.livejournal.com]

Brian, I answered your nonjahari window. Please keep in mind that I only sometimes see what my answers were. I think these windows only provide a snipet of who we all actually are. hugs T

[elissaann.livejournal.com]

IMO, you probably shouldn't toss this out on any day.

Why do you want to know what other people consider your negative traits?

[tshuma]

I've decided I officially don't like the nohari window. It would be far too easy for someone to take something I see as a minor negative to mean something far worse. There are no mitigating factors in nohari. Also, I rarely see more than a couple of negative characteristics in someone unless I know them really well, and I'd have to search hard to find as many as five in most of my lj friends.

tongue firmly in cheek

[hot-turkey.livejournal.com]

"Buddy, what's wrong? You usually love my floggings."

[dawnd.livejournal.com]

Jay, please read this analysis of the use of a Johari window. I think it has bearing on your response to this tool.

http://www.noogenesis.com/game_theory/johari/johari_window.html

[inflectionpoint.livejournal.com]

Ack. None of this johari nohari stuff is from me. That's something I won't touch with the proverbial ten foot pole. The idea of anonymous commenting on personal traits without it being done in a -very- carefully controlled and guided atmosphere with very specific goals and with a chance for one on one feedback to the commenters... the idea of anonymous commenting, absent those constraints... makes me sick to my stomach.

I got enough of that abuse in high school to tide me over for the rest of my life.

So rest safe, none of that nonsense is from me, dear.