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jay ([personal profile] jay) wrote2003-02-14 08:39 am

V-Day blues

And it isn't just because my paper is late... I generally dread today, and am usually left feeling inadequate, bereft, or both. Gestures are confused, dinners are disastrous, and I always forget something or someone. All for a commercially-manipulated holiday... sigh.

[identity profile] patgreene.livejournal.com 2003-02-14 09:16 am (UTC)(link)
Speaking solely for myself, Valentine's Day is just another day -- except that I have to get two recalcitrant children to sign cards for all their classmates. (Fortunately, now that J is in middle school, he doesn't do that any more.) I am happy if someone sends me something, but I neither expect it nor am upset if they don't. I am just as happy if someone sends me flowers on St. Swithin's Day, for that matter.

And for the record, [livejournal.com profile] brian1789 gave me one of the best Valentine's Day presents I ever had: three years ago, he gave me hand-made chocolates. Some of my friends were quite envious.... "You mean, he made you chocolate truffles? Oooohhh....."

[identity profile] mactavish.livejournal.com 2003-02-16 09:40 am (UTC)(link)
Valentine's Day is just another day -- except that I have to get two recalcitrant children to sign cards for all their classmates . . . this is one of the traditions that's strongly discouraged me from having any deep feeling for Valentine's Day.