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jay ([personal profile] jay) wrote2003-02-14 08:39 am

V-Day blues

And it isn't just because my paper is late... I generally dread today, and am usually left feeling inadequate, bereft, or both. Gestures are confused, dinners are disastrous, and I always forget something or someone. All for a commercially-manipulated holiday... sigh.

[identity profile] boubabe.livejournal.com 2003-02-14 08:49 am (UTC)(link)
Well, my V-day has passed me by, and I'm feeling all of the above angst. This was not a day that I enjoyed. Doesn't help it that in Japan, its only girls who are suppose to give chocolate to boys so I was surrounded by most of my male colleagues getting a bounty of gifts from my female students (my school has about 80% female students).

[identity profile] lavendargrrl.livejournal.com 2003-02-14 08:52 am (UTC)(link)
Ohhhhhhhhh...I'm sorry you're feeling that way...is there anyway for you to sit down and maybe write your love/loves a sincere letter? I don't know your romantic or relationship habits, but a sincere letter from a love's heart is genuinely romantic and makes a wonderful keepsake...it also allows some time and space to edit and hopefully make an authentic presentation...and cuts down on the commercialism too...I hope your Vday experience is better this year than in the past....

V day blues.

[identity profile] p3aches.livejournal.com 2003-02-14 08:55 am (UTC)(link)
Brian,
Vday is a tough time. Big hugs. You are sincere in your loving and that is the best valintine any person could ever get.T

[identity profile] patgreene.livejournal.com 2003-02-14 08:56 am (UTC)(link)
*smooch*

And having an SO that continually forgets V-Day doesn't help either. Sorry.

[identity profile] griffen.livejournal.com 2003-02-14 08:59 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs* If I were there, I'd come and sweep you off your feet, and I wouldn't use chocolate, either. *grins*

[identity profile] mactavish.livejournal.com 2003-02-14 09:01 am (UTC)(link)
Are your loved ones people who need an observation or recognition of Valentine's Day? It might help to sort those to whom it matters from those who couldn't give less of a whit.

[identity profile] cjsmith.livejournal.com 2003-02-14 09:16 am (UTC)(link)
I am sooooo glad I'm out of town this V-Day. (Just about to leave for the airport, in fact.) Yay!
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[personal profile] geekchick 2003-02-14 10:02 am (UTC)(link)
I generally dread today, and am usually left feeling inadequate, bereft, or both.

Love you. *smooch*