Baker House redux

[jay]

I scored 65 ¾% on the classic 400 Point Purity Test!

Take the test here!

Given that most of my friends are in the 30s-50s, I suppose that this is yet another measure of how I'm unsuited for their company, out of their collective league, &c...

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[mactavish.livejournal.com]

Given that most of my friends are in the 30s-50s, I suppose that this is yet another measure of how I'm unsuited for their company, out of their collective league, &c...

First: The purity test really isn't valid.

Second: Of my friends who've taken tests, the scores range from in the 30s to in the 70s. The results mean nothing in terms of who's in who's league. They're just for fun. It's like me saying, "Wow, sinboy has lived in Singapore! I must be out of his league," or brian1789 is a scientist! I'm out of his league!" They are not about compatibility. They're a lot about a silly game.

Third: Affirmations can be negative, too. If you're affirming that you're socially unacceptable, it will continue to sink into your gut even deeper, and social situations just might become more awkward for you. It might be time to get back to your Lenten practice. Try to find good things in situations (you *were* social last night! quietly so, but you were) and write about them, too. Give them the weight they deserve!

[dancing-star.livejournal.com]

Given that most of my friends are in the 30s-50s, I suppose that this is yet another measure of how I'm unsuited for their company, out of their collective league

Unsuited for my company? Not at all. Doesn't matter what your score is on any of the purity tests and other odd quizs that float around. They are for fun. I've stopped going down, If I was to loose many more points I'd be going in to things that are on my NO way list.

[cathouse-blues.livejournal.com]

Pish. It just means your friends need to work harder to bring you down to our level.

[purplecthulhu.livejournal.com]

Well I score 62.25... Does that mean I'm too depreaved for your company too?

HUH?

[greeklady.livejournal.com]

OH for F***s Sake Brian!!

I suppose that this is yet another measure of how I'm unsuited for their company, out of their collective league, &c...


You keep saying this in your journal on the poly list... keep saying it and it will not only change this untrue fact to become FACT but also reinforce and make everyone believe you are completely unsuited to sit at the same table as them because you haven't been fucked backwards, while riding a camel down a deck of a boat blindfolded in the middle of the day! If you want to get invited to a sex party then ask the host of one to invite you. Then you can be just like everyone else. There is something to be said by being different. Seriously. If you don't want to wait for a sex party take your wife or one of your lovers the next time you are in town and go to the swingers club in San Jose and just have sex with them. That way you are at a 'sex' party yet being safe.

I don't know anymore what you are asking for when you post things like this. Do you want people to ignore you and let you vent? Do you secretly hope someone reading your journal will get a veiled hint and cuddle with you at a gathering? Are you wanting sympathy? Empathy? Or are you just that insecure that you think you are so different but you really aren't because you have a wife and several LDR's? You told me yourself you weren't into closer relationships because you don't think it would work out. I guess I am not sure how to react or act for that matter to posts with comments like this.

I don't know if it makes any sort of difference to you but I had and have found you very attractive. Mentally and sexually. I contstantly wonder where you come from in the mind set when you post things like this. Who you are measuring against if you are. Or who you want to be accepted by. I just don't understand.