As an aside

[jay]

If getting laid was a priority of mine, I wouldn't dare to voice public opinions that I know might alienate some potential (or even current) partners...

If you're wondering what I'm talking about, it isn't worth your time...

Comments

Re: Happiness is a choice

[raddy.livejournal.com]

I haven't read anything in that community, and don't know you more than a bit. But from what little I've noticed, the casting myself intentionally negatively sounds about right. My suspicion is it is part of a larger pattern of beating yourself up, but then again I could just be projecting myself onto my perception of you.